We Can Do Better, Right?

The other day, I was driving around town and passed a church with an incredibly familiar logo. It wasn’t a denominational church with a standard, identifiable logo (like the UMC cross and flame). But, the logo just seemed familiar. I kept wondering, “where have I seen this before?”

It was the kind of familiarity that my inability to identify my previous interaction with the logo bothered me. So, I did a little investigation to see if maybe the church was associated with another network of churches that shared a logo. Nope, this is an independent congregation. I did a little more investigation to see if maybe the logo was just similar to another church. Nope, I didn’t find any other churches with that logo.

Then, while cruising through the channel guide, it hit me. This church had “borrowed” their logo from a popular cable network. Yes, there is a minor adjustment from the cable network logo. But, even with the minor, it’s all-too-obvious that the logo creator basically stole the logo. Certainly, this is a case of copyright infringement.

This brought back memories of all the terrible Christian t-shirts that are pawned at youth pastor conventions, youth rallies, and Christian bookstores. You might be familiar with some of the t-shirts that attempt to “Christianize” popular brands.

Certainly we can do better than this, right?

Certainly, with our God-given gifts and talents we can come up with something better than ripping off Doctor Who, Subway, Heinz Ketchup, Facebook, Mountain Dew, Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups, and (as much as I hate the establishment) Starbucks, right?

Maybe the creators of these knockoff’s interpret the idea of not conforming to “the patterns of this world” as meaning that one should simply take something that’s popular and use it to promote your particular religious and theological agenda?

Maybe the creators of these knockoff’s believe that their gifts and talents are best used by stealing another person’s ideas and throwing a little Jesus into the mix is better than creating fresh and unique artistic expressions?

Listen, I’ve been part of the problem. I’ve helped create youth group t-shirts that were blatantly illegal! I mean, I had a printer one day tell me, “Listen, I’ll print these shirts for you. But, if anyone asks where you got them, you didn’t get them from me. Got it?”

But, the good Lord convicted me of these horrible transgressions and laid it on my heart to continually remind us that we can and must do better!

Christian companies that produce knock-off items can and must do better.

Churches that produce knock-off logos can and must do better.

Pastors who preach downloaded sermons and tell Jim Gaffigan’s jokes without crediting their source can and must do better.

We can and must do better.




Make America Rage Again

When I was in high school, if you had told me that members of Public Enemy, Rage Against  the Machine, and Cypress Hill were going to form a super group…well, my head probably would have exploded as I tried to contain my enthusiasm.

While I’m slightly disappointed that Zack de la Rocha has not emerged from whatever cave he’s been hiding in, Chuck D and B-Real definitely bring some passion! I mean, Chuck D! Do I really need to say more???

In our politically fueled and polarized cultural climate, we need this collaboration!

That’s Not Helpful

This week, I’ve been preparing a message on 1 Kings 19. In the passage, we find our hero, Elijah, in a bad place.

Elijah had just defeated the prophets of Baal. It was a huge victory. In the aftermath, Ahab ran off and complained to Jezebel that Elijah had ruined everything. What a crybaby! Hearing the news, Jezebel was extremely pissed because those dead prophets had told her everything she wanted to hear. In other words, Elijah was bad for business.

In response, Jezebel called for Elijah’s life.

Verse 3 tells us that “Elijah was terrified. He got up and ran for his life.” He had just come off a tremendous victory and was feeling alone and afraid. This prophet who had just reigned victorious was feeling the pressure of the threats of Jezebel.

In fact, he was so overwhelmed that, in verse 4, “he longed for his own death: ‘It’s more than enough, LORD! Take my life…”

This is a man who is at the end of his rope. He feels as though he is out of options and simply wants his life to end.

As I read this story, I found myself wondering how the Church treats those who are at the end of their ropes…

Do we create safe spaces where people can be open, honest, and real about their struggles, their feelings, their loneliness, their depression, their anger, etc?

Do we sit and listen to the hurting and broken or are we quick to offer some “biblical” advice?

Do we offer care, concern, and love for the least, the last, the lost, the hurting, the broken, the person at the end of his/her rope?

Are we attempting to “do no harm”?

I sort of wonder what would have been the reaction if some “spiritually mature” person had been there to tell Elijah that “God has a plan. God will never give you more than you can handle”? I wonder how Elijah would have responded?

When we’re at the end of our ropes, when we’re feeling the weight and pressure of all the crap that life can throw our way, hearing Christian clichés rarely helps the way those who offer them believe they will.

Shortly after college, I moved to start a new job in an unfamiliar town. I knew absolutely no one. I lived in a one-bedroom apartment surrounded by an oddly high number of anti-social neighbors. I had left a community where I was surrounded by friends and family and entered a new place where I felt totally alone. Many nights, I would lay on the floor of the apartment, gazing at the ceiling, asking myself, “What the hell have I gotten myself into?”

Add to the loneliness a dose of poor self-image. I was not caring for myself physically. I was eating poorly. I was probably drinking a bit too much (as a way to mask the loneliness). And, when I looked in the mirror, I didn’t like the view. I was miserable.

The church I worked at was great. But, I was trying to “find my way”…and I was struggling.

I attempted to find some community within a network of youth ministers. I felt fairly safe in being open and honest about my struggles. When I talked about my poor self-image, one of the network members said, “Well, the Bible tells us that ‘no man ever hates his own flesh’. So, you just need to name it and claim it and those feelings will go away. Just put your faith and trust in God. You can’t love Jesus and hate yourself.”

I found myself thinking, “Thanks for the Scripture lesson, asshole!” In the moment, I was unhappy with myself. And, the cherry-picked Scripture wasn’t helpful.

If we try hard enough, we can find a Bible verse to “fix” any problem we have. But, I’m not convinced that’s how it is supposed to work. When we’re struggling and barely hanging on, someone quoting and poorly interpreting a passage of Scripture to inform you that your feelings are invalid just does not help.

You see, I didn’t need to be reminded that Ephesians 5:29, while actually addressing how a husband should treat his spouse, can be interpreted to imply that my poor self-image and feelings were inappropriate and demonstrated a lack of faith. Sure, he was trying to help, I think. But, it just wasn’t helpful.

I believe we have to be mindful about how our words and actions can actually do more harm than good. The Christian clichés that we so readily lean on are not always helpful. We cling to them because we are uncomfortable with depression, pain and suffering. We share them because we often don’t know what else to say. We share terrible theology because we think it might help a person turn the corner.

But, in reality, we are simply reducing a persons experience and basically telling them to “get over it.”

It would have been more helpful if that network member would have said, “Hey, it sounds like you are having a rough transition. Here’s the name and number of an excellent counselor.” It would have been more helpful if he would have said, “Hey, it sounds like you aren’t happy with your physical state. Let’s meet at the gym tomorrow.”

So, the next time you encounter a friend, family member, or random stranger that happens to open up to you, ask yourself before you share, “Is what I am about to saying helpful or hurtful?” Then, proceed with caution.




James Dobson…Jerry Falwell, Jr…Pat Robertson…John Piper…Mark Driscoll…the list could go on and on…

For years, I have cringed any time these names pop up on my news feed. You see, I’ve come to find that any time these names are associated with a news story, it’s going to highlight some kind of crazy,  serious nut-job, chauvinistic, bigoted, homophobic, judgmental, and most likely politically charged statement they have made.

After they make one of their statements that tends to find its way into the national news (or at least 5 million Facebook shares), I find myself proclaiming, “Look, we’re not all like that.” I find myself doing everything in my power to distance myself from guys like those named above.

And, to be honest, I’m tired of it. I’m tired of feeling the need to differentiate myself from these guys. I’m tired of feeling the need to make sure people are aware that I don’t agree with the Confessing Movement/Good News camp, the supposed “moral majority”, the “religious right” or the so-called “American Evangelicals”.

Of course, in differentiating myself from these groups and individuals, I’m not sure I’m doing much good. Instead, I’m just highlighting the growing division within the Church.

Sure, I have people say, “Thank you for giving me hope that you Christians are not all like that.” But, shouldn’t people know that I’m “not like that” simply by the way I live my life and demonstrate my love for God and others through my every day words and deeds? If I’m doing my best to live what I believe, I really shouldn’t have to make any kind of distancing statement.

Let’s be honest, whenever I get on my soapbox to rail against the statements by those I label as judgmental, homophobic, bigoted, chauvinistic, crazy, nut jobs, I’m just being a judgmental, progressive, liberal, crazy, nut job.

Sure, there are times when Christian leaders need to speak out against the statements and decisions that are made by other Christian leaders. I mean, as a pastor, there are times to tap into that “prophetic voice”.

However, too often, we jump on our anti-Dobson posts because we’ll get more “likes” and generate traffic to our blogs. And, at this point, it probably isn’t necessary.

So, I guess I’m tired of being tired of being tired of others. I’m tired of the “us vs. them”, “I’m right, you’re wrong” games being played within the Church. It’s not a strong witness.

In the continued spirit of honesty, I’ve got way too much of my own junk to deal with to be too concerned with the ridiculous statements made by people I don’t even know on a personal level.

Maybe I should take seriously (but not literally, after all, I am a crazy, progressive, liberal, nut job) that whole story about focusing on that speck of dust in my neighbors eye while ignoring the log in my own.

A Little Cultural Sensitivity Would Be Nice

Prior to the tragic shooting in Orlando, I noticed something at the ball diamond that bothered me. Several of my daughters opposing teams coaches (that’s a mouthful) love to use gun verbiage to instruct the players on their hitting. While our coaches can come up with some pretty hilarious metaphors for hitting, I’ve been thankful they have not used any of the following I hear on a far too regular basis:

“Listen, you’ve got to get that gun loaded and cocked before you can fire.”

“Make sure that’s gun loaded and then fire away.”

“Load it, cock it, and hit that target.”

I find myself thinking, “For the love of God, can’t you be more creative? You’re talking about hitting a damn ball.”

This week, we’ve had three games. First, let me brag…my daughters team won all three games!

At all three games, the coaches used the gun metaphor over and over and over. I kept thinking, “Okay, I get what you are trying to say. But, let’s try and be aware of what’s just happened in our world. Let’s try and show little cultural sensitivity.”

In light of the events that took place in Orlando, giving the gun lingo a break seems more than appropriate.

It reminded me of the need for clergy to be aware of what’s going on in the lives of our church members, in our community, nation, and world. There are times when we stick a foot in our mouths simply because we aren’t paying attention. Now, to show a little grace, maybe there are times we get caught up in the moment and things simply slip our minds.

It’s like the pastor who says on Sunday morning, “If you ever see me out running, you better call an ambulance because I’ll probably drop dead”, the morning after one of his church members tragically passed away while finishing up a run on Saturday.

Now, in regards to the tragic events in Orlando, I’ve not said much. My friend, Andrew Draper, wrote something that really describes how I’ve felt, “Silence sometimes means that we don’t know what to say.”

As the week has progressed, I’ve found myself thinking about how the Church needs to rise up and speak on behalf of the victims of discrimination and hatred. The Church should be saying, “You are loved. You are welcome here. You are needed. You are valued. You are worthy.” We should not be saying, “We love you, but…” There should be no qualifying language surrounding our love for one another. Discrimination and hatred are not Biblical values. Unconditional love is a biblical value.

The Church needs to call for stricter gun control…even when (maybe that should be “especially when”) we serve churches where church and community members love their guns. It’s more than appropriate to call for stricter regulations when your church members are card-carrying, flag-waving members of the NRA. Clergy should be challenging the accepted norms and causing our people to think deeply.

Now, this might come as a surprise to you, but…Jesus didn’t die on a cross in order for people to own guns!


Listen, if someone needs a semi-automatic weapon to hunt or defend himself/herself, he/she must be a lousy shot. No one is trying to take your guns. No one is trying to take away your rights (by the way, stop saying that gun ownership is a “God-given right”). I’m pretty sure our founding fathers were not thinking about stock-piling mass quantities of high-powered, semi-automatic and automatic weapons and ammunition when they composed the 2nd Amendment.

In light of the disturbing number of mass shootings taking place in this nation, we have to admit that we have a gun problem. Yes, there are mental health issues that need to be addressed. Yes, there are national security issues that need to be addressed. But it is foolish to continue with the idea that there are not gun issues and ease of access issues that need to be addressed. It is all-too clear that we have ease of access and gun issues that desperately need to be addressed.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” Maybe the reason the Church in the United States has struggled is because we have “become silent about things that matter” for far too long?



An Update

Greetings from Grabbing a Beer with a Pastor.

It’s been far too long sense I’ve shared a blog or podcast. I got off to a decent start and then, well, life happened. Therefore, the blogs and podcasts have been irregular. That will change in the near future!

As I move to Fort Wayne to begin my new appointment, I will be blogging regularly and sharing monthly podcasts.

Regular blogs and podcasts will begin in July!

When Asking People to Pray Pisses Them Off…

Today, the Council of Bishops of the United Methodist Church were in a tough position. They were asked to propose a plan for “moving forward” as a denomination in regards to the deep divide on human sexuality.

After watching the live stream, I decided I needed to go home, eat lunch, and have a beer. Yes, General Conference drove me to do some day-drinking. Because it was lunch, I decided to pour a Founders All Day IPA. The Founders website has this to say about this beer, “The beer you’ve been waiting for. Keeps your taste satisfied while keeping your senses sharp. An all-day IPA naturally brewed with a complex array of malts, grains and hops. Balanced for optimal aromatics and a clean finish. The perfect reward for an honest day’s work and the ultimate companion to celebrate life’s simple pleasures.” For a session IPA, it’s pretty solid. Tasty, hoppy, low ABV (4.7), an all-around smooth beer to accompany my cheeseburger!

Bishop Ough brought to light that the Council of Bishops are not of one mind when it comes to human sexuality. However, one senses a desire for a united move forward coming from the Council of Bishops.

They presented the following proposal:

NEXT STEPS: We recommend that the General Conference defer all votes on human sexuality and refer this entire subject to a special Commission, named by the Council of Bishops, to develop a complete examination and possible revision of every paragraph in our Book of Discipline regarding human sexuality. We continue to hear from many people on the debate over sexuality that our current Discipline contains language which is contradictory, unnecessarily hurtful, an inadequate for the variety of local, regional and global contexts.

We will name such a Commission to include persons from every region of our UMC, and that will include representation from differing perspectives on the debate. We commit to maintain an on-gong dialogue with this Commission as they do their work, including clear objectives and outcomes. Should they complete their work in time for a called General Conference, then we will call a two to three day gathering before the 2020 General Conference. (We will consult with GCFA regarding cost-effective ways to hold that gathering)

CONTINUING DISCUSSIONS: We will continue to explore options to help the church to live in grace with one another – including ways to avoid further complaints, trials, and harm while we uphold the Discipline. We will continue our conversation on this matter and report our progress to you and to the whole church.

Today, as a way of beginning to find our way forward, we suggest that in place of the allotted legislative time we spend 1-2 hours of plenary time in prayer, confession and then exploration of a creative way forward. The bishops are prepared to provide questions to guide your conversations. Your conversations will be the first step to a way forward.

Watching the Twitter feed (#umcgc) is not exactly a fruitful activity. There seems to be a great deal of hurt on both sides of the issue. Folks on both the conservative/traditional side and liberal/progressive side feel the CoB has failed to lead. The proposal, for some, seems to be another kick of the can.

Many say, “We have prayed. We have discerned. We have confessed. We have developed creative plans for a way forward. We need more.”

My brothers and sisters with ties to the Confessing Movement and Good News feel the Bishops should have come out strong and made a statement calling for more conservative views in regards to human sexuality, ordination, and marriage. To put it bluntly, they are pissed off.

My brothers and sisters with ties to the Reconciling Movement feel the Bishops should have called for more liberal views in regards to inclusion, human sexuality, ordination, and marriage. To put it bluntly, they are pissed off.

My brothers and sisters who are somewhere in the middle, well, they are probably content with the statement from the CoB.

I’m not surprised by the proposal made by the CoB. What did we really expect? Given the short amount of time they had to prepare a proposal and given the addressed divide among the bishops, should we be surprised? This was probably the most faithful and united statement the CoB could have designed given the restraints.

It is my considered opinion that there needs to be a call for humility. The growing divide between the conservative and liberal movements within our denomination is doing more damage than good.

We are no longer listening to one another. We are simply looking for the opportunity to respond. We have written off those on the other side of the issue. We fail to have mutual love and respect. We have become so passionate about this issue that we fail to do what Jesus commands us to do…”love God, love one another, love even your enemies.”

Can we gather around the table with love, respect, grace, mercy, compassion and humility? Can we truly listen with open hearts and minds? Can we find a creative way to move forward and remain united on that One Thing (Christ as Lord) that draws us together?  Well, I guess we have some time to pray about it!


What Unites Us…

Hello. My name is Jason. I am a United Methodist. I have been a United Methodist for as long as I remember. I am a United Methodist clergyperson.  I am about to have a stream of consciousness rant in the sentences that follow.

As I write, delegates representing the worldwide movement of the United Methodist Church are gathered in Portland, Oregon for our General Conference.

There seems to be a bit of a “charged spirit” as the delegation gathers. There is a lot of divisiveness within the family. That divisiveness is fuel to the fire. The divisiveness is mostly attributed to our debate on human sexuality.

My brothers and sisters on the more conservative side feel our Book of Discipline is already too inclusive. They speak of “biblical faithfulness” in firming up our stance on homosexuality, marriage and ordination.

My brothers and sisters on the more progressive side feel our Book of Discipline is not inclusive enough. They speak of “biblical faithfulness” in becoming more inclusive when it comes to homosexuality, marriage, and ordination.

My brothers and sisters who are more moderate, well, they tend to get lost in the mix.

The two sides are putting their rods in the sand. There are calls for division, schism, an amicable split. There are calls for unity.

My question is this, what does our in-fighting do for our faithful witness? When the world sees us squabbling about what divides, does that present the light, hope, love, grace, peace, mercy, and compassion of Christ?

For me, “Christ as Lord” is what unites me with my more moderate and conservative brothers and sisters. I may not agree with their theological, political, or social views. But, I believe that they are doing their best to serve and honor “Christ as Lord”. So, if we cannot agree on matters of human sexuality, well, I’m not sure it’s the biggest issue facing our church today. The biggest issue is how all of this impacts our witness of a loving God.

Wesley challenged us to “do no harm, do good, and stay in love with God.” Jesus implied that “they will know you by your love”. Jesus also implied that those who do His will, who love God and neighbor, who practice humility, justice and mercy will be the ones who inherit the Kingdom.

Jesus didn’t say anything about the Book of Discipline. Jesus didn’t say anything about homosexuality. Jesus seemed less concerned on who was right and who was wrong, and more on who practiced humility, justice, mercy and love.

So, I wonder if our divisiveness is simply an adventure in missing the point? We seem to be more focused on that which divides us.

Can you imagine the powerful witness the UMC could have if we would simple unite around the Way of Jesus?

Worship with the Foo Fighters

Many of my Christian friends love the musical portions of worship gatherings. Often, the “praise and worship” time is the highlight of their church experience.

In addition to that, they love to have times of worship as they listen to their favorite Christian music in the car, at their desk, while running, or wherever they happen to be listening to music.

Some prefer the hymns of Charles Wesley. Some prefer Gregorian chant. Some enjoy Bill Gaither. Others enjoy Josh Garrels. Some like Steven Curtis Chapman. Others like the Newsboys. Some geek out to Sandi Patty. Others geek out to Lecrae. The list could go on an on, featuring Chris Tomlin, David Crowder, Gungor, for King and Country, Kirk Franklin, tobymac, etc.

To be honest, I’m not a huge fan of Christian music. However, I do experience great times of worship through music. Some of my favorite worship bands are Rage Against the Machine, Medeski, Martin & Wood, Snarky Puppy, Pearl Jam, Minor Threat, Radiohead, Public Enemy, John Coltrane, Miles Davis, Poncho Sanchez, R.E.M., and many other bands who probably don’t actually qualify as a worship band.

But, isn’t worship less about the music and more about our hearts connecting with God?

When non-Christian bands make beautiful, quality music, I find my heart connecting with God. When musicians sing about love, justice, lament, struggle, and concern for the common man, my heart connects with God. When Snarky Puppy’s horn section plays some incredible harmonies, the hairs on the back of my neck stand, I get goose bumps, and my heart connects with God. I could go on and on…

So, this morning, I found myself worshiping with the Foo Fighters. And, it doesn’t hurt that, in this particular recording, Gary Clark, Jr. is providing some lead guitar magic! Maybe it will heal your soul!

“I’m lost, deliver me
I crossed the river finally
God as my witness
Yeah it’s gonna heal my soul tonight”


~Foo Fighters, “What Did I Do/God as My Witness”


Before We Head to the Polls

So, for the first time in a long time, the primary election in Indiana will have major implications in regards to the presidential race on both sides.

First, doesn’t the idea that two parties basically control the political influence in our nation disturb you?

This election, more than any other in my life time, seems to be highlighting the great political divide within our nation.

Conservatives are rallying behind Trump because he is different from the Republican establishment. Many establishment Republican leaders are trying to say that “no Republican wants Trump to be President.” This shows how out-of-touch with reality they truly are because Trump has been cruising to victories in the Republican primaries. Of course, the establishment doesn’t seem to want Cruz either. John Boehner came out the other day calling Ted Cruz a lunatic, “Lucifer in the flesh” and that “I have never worked with a more miserable son of a bitch in my life.” And, that’s John Boehner!

Liberals are “feeling the Bern” because, even though he is a career politician, his platform is different from the Democrat establishment. Many establishment Democrats are trying to discredit Sanders because his platform disrupts their comfort.

Moderate voices, from any political party, are lost in the midst of this extremism.

These different and often polarizing voices are exposing what we already know…the average U.S. citizen is tired of our current system that seeks to protect the already powerful.

Too many Christians mistakenly confuse their political affiliation as part of their theological perspective. They have been convinced that to be an evangelical you have to vote Republican. They have been convinced that to be a progressive you have to vote Democrat.

And, in the midst of this political allegiance, which too often trumps our allegiance to Jesus, we fail to ask ourselves “where do we see the heart of Jesus?” We simply submit to blindly go the way of our political party.

As those of us in Indiana who confess “Christ as Lord” head to the polls, we need to be asking ourselves, “where do we see the heart of Jesus?”

We just might find that we don’t see the heart of Jesus in any of our options. Therefore, we will have to be honest and indicate that we are not voting based upon our faith values, but our political agenda.

“We vote every day for companies, for people, and we put money toward ‘campaigns.’ We need to think of the faces behind the scenes. Who are the masters and Caesars that we pledge allegiance to by the way we live and through the things we put our trust in? We vote every day with our feet, our hands, our lips, and our wallets. We are the vote for the poor. We are to vote for the peacemakers. We are to vote for the marginalized, the oppressed, the most vulnerable of our society. These are the ones Jesus voted for, those whom every empire had left behind, those whom no millionaire politician will represent.”  ― Shane Claiborne, Jesus for President: Politics for Ordinary Radicals

“I have noticed a more drastic shift in the church world and especially in the evangelical church world during the first decade of the twenty-first century. Values of justice and compassion for the poor are now associated mainly with the liberal end of the Christian spectrum (if associated with Christianity at all), while evangelicals are known primarily for political conservatism.” ― Mike Slaughter, Hijacked: Responding to the Partisan Church Divide

“The kingdom of God is neither blue nor red, tea nor coffee! The church must stand in prophetic tension with Constantinian political systems and never underwrite or accommodate itself to a partisan political world order, including American democracy.”
― Mike Slaughter, Hijacked: Responding to the Partisan Church Divide

“We have been seduced by sound bites. It is difficult to imagine how we are going to have an intelligent conversation around complex theopolitical issues as long as the average news consumer in America is willing to be sound-bite driven. We face a sorry state of affairs in our culture when few people seem willing to take the time for nuanced discussion on the complicated challenges we face. Politicians of all parties have been willing to foster this sound-bite mentality because it has worked for them. Most Americans work hard and are faced with too little time and too many distractions to study the issues well enough to make an informed judgment on them. As long as news consumers are willing to be manipulated by sound bites and are unwilling to commit the time to understand the complexities, we will continue to see artificial and simplistic distinctions drive too much of our conversation, resulting in divisions and disagreements that rarely get at the substantive issues.” ― Charles E. Gutenson, Hijacked: Responding to the Partisan Church Divide

“Disagreement itself is not the problem, passionate disagreement is not the problem, rather the inability to put aside disagreement in nonessentials for the sake of Christian unity is the problem.” ― Charles E. Gutenson, Hijacked: Responding to the Partisan Church Divide